Some push harder. Some withdraw. Some talk it through. Some analyse endlessly. Each reaction comes with its own risks, blind spots and long-term consequences.
Resilience is not a personality trait. It is a behavioural pattern under stress. And once again, the four colours shape that pattern.
Reds often respond to setbacks with action mistaking speed for progress.
Yellows reframe quickly and stay optimistic, while avoiding responsibility for what went wrong.
Greens tend to internalise setbacks, taking on more emotional weight than is theirs to carry.
Blues analyse deeply, seeking certainty and risk getting stuck waiting for perfect answers.
The book helps readers recognise these tendencies in themselves. It normalises the reactions, reduces shame, and explains why thinking positive or pulling yourself together rarely works.
Readers finish the book knowing why they struggle after setbacks, but not how to move forward depending on their own pesonality.
This is where the DISC assessment becomes a practical tool.
By clarifying your behavioural profile, the assessment helps you:
- understand how you instinctively take (or avoid) responsibility under pressure
- see whether your default coping strategy moves you forward or holds you back
- and build recovery habits that fit your natural style instead of fighting it
Overcoming setbacks is not about becoming someone else. It is about using your strengths consciously and compensating for your blind spots before they cost you time, confidence, or momentum.
Read the book to understand your reaction to adversity.
Take the DISC assessment to recover faster and move forward with intention instead of habit.
Meet Thomas Erikson
Thomas Erikson is an internationally recognized behaviourist, keynote speaker, and the author behind the Surrounded by series.
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