“You’re not difficult. You’re just … Red.”

Let’s talk about conflict. Not the big dramatic kind, just the annoying everyday tension we all sense but can’t really see.

The teammate who always “forgets” your email. The partner who says you’re too intense. The neighbour who interprets “Can we talk?” as an intimidation.

Sometimes, we think: What’s wrong with these people?
Other times, we think: What’s wrong with me?

But often the answer is simpler: it’s not a personality clash. It’s a colour clash.

A Red person values speed, clarity, action. A Green person values harmony, calm, stability. Put them in a room together without awareness and sparks will fly. Reds interrupt. Greens retreat. Reds demand decisions. Greens dream of peace.

No one of these two is wrong. They’re just seeing the world through different lenses. You knew that already. But ow do you practice this in your daily life?